#061 It's not a marriage interview.

Before you head out on that first date, take a nice deep breath and exhale out all of those predate jitters. What is the worst thing that can happen? You spill your outstanding glass of Merlot down the front of your white shirt or dress? You accidentally refer to your date by the name of the person you last went out with? You pass gas and it’s a “silent but deadly” minus the silent? Ok, it occurs to me that I may not exactly be helping. Listen, this is NOT a marriage interview! If things don’t go perfectly, it truly isn’t the end of the world. Let’s face it, life is both messy and glorious, but never perfect. Think about this. What if things don’t go quite as smoothly as you had hoped, and they STILL want to see you again? Well, then you may have just found the Kermit to your Miss Piggy, the Wilma to your Fred, the Romeo to your Juliet! So just relax, be yourself, and realize if things are meant to be, they will be, regardless of a few imperfections.

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