#057 Let them unpack their own bags.
If the person you’ve been going out with starts to give you a plethora of excuses as to why they are not the right person for you, snap to attention. For example, if you are hearing things like “I’m just too damaged for you”, or “you deserve someone far better than I”, just go ahead and take them at their word. It’s true that it may just be a low self-esteem issue, but let’s face it, that is not something you can fix for them. They have to unpack that baggage on their own. The thing is, though, their excuses are most likely just euphemisms for “I’m just not feeling it”.