#054 Set Boundaries
Boundaries are important, and when setting them, remember to set them for yourself and not the other person. Going into a relationship believing you are going to change another person’s undesirable behaviors, is probably not a realistic goal. You can, however, set limits for yourself regarding what you will and will not tolerate. You are completely in control of what role you assume. You can place yourself in the role of a victim of circumstance, or you can assume a position in which you are empowered to make better choices for yourself. If a person treats you badly, it is completely within your power to reject this behavior, and choose to spend time with someone who treats you the way you deserve to be treated.